You pen your thoughts to make them flow

You know the feeling of hearing everything that you've always been afraid to hear.
at times you ignore it,
dismiss it,
even making a joke out of it.

but sooner or later
it comes and bite you back harder in the ass.

ive been confronted with several issues recently,
and lest to say,
none were my comfort topics to chit chat over a cup of tea.

i daresay in every relationship,
there must be occasional times where you and your partner have a really heart to heart conversation.
its kinda like annual review for a company,
you review the past year and you kinda give feedback and maybe even suggestions.
the really downright utter straightforward feedback.

such a session is not something you will look forward to but you have to do it,
at some point of your relationship.
you face up to your limitations,
you stare at your failed attempts at sustaining a good relationship.
you get all tied up and horrified at the harsh unconscious wrong movements you have made in the relationship.

and at the end of the turbulent 'chit chat' session,
you both hope to emerge out as both a little bit more understanding about the other's issues and problems.

beware that you are to be equipped with the mental energy and zest to communicate before embarking on a heartfelt conversation with your other half.